10 Tips to help you and your date enjoy your Valentine's Day

1. Use Your Head As A Sex Organ
Take your date to a favorite restaurant with a quiet, intimate environment. Build up the sexual tension by taking little steps: subtle touches, lots of eye contact, etc. It lets your date know you want him. If and when you get back to your place, take a moment, light some candles, put some mood music on, and then spend the rest of the night exploring each other. Keep the agenda at your office! 

2. Be Spontaneous
Skip the whole dinner date thing, go straight home.  Set a plate of fresh fruit and cheese out for nibbling later on and get naked.  Offer to give them a full body massage. Then, after the massage, go right into the foreplay.  And after the foreplay, let nature takes its course.

3. Toys for Grown Ups
Make sure you have some pleasure toys for that special person and, of course, a few condoms on hand to cover them during use, which makes it easier to clean. 

4. Send a free thoughtful gift
Send your favorite man an intimate voicemail, text message and/or email to let them know you are glad to know them and are happy that they are a part of your life.  Tell them one thing that you really like about them. It’s always great to share with them something that is working for you sexually!

5. Silent Seduction
Sometimes during a sexual encounter, nothing is more erotic than the sound of your own heavy breathing. Want to capture some intensity in your sex life? The next time you have him all relaxed, put a set of ear plugs in his ears, this will enhance the sound of breathing and block out the rest of the world so he can focus solely with his other four senses and enjoying one another's bodies. Kick it up a notch and both of you can have them in!

6.  Musical Interlude
Remember when you used to make a mixed tape for that special someone? To get you both in the mood, make a mix CD of your favorite sexy songs. It doesn't matter what the songs are, as long as they make you feel sexy when you hear them. Play them throughout the day to get yourself in the mood or save them to play during your lovemaking.

7 Try something new
Take turns pampering each other. Offer to trade massages or prepare a special midnight snack. Even better, rent time at a local hot tub/spa for just the two of you!

8. Playing those numbers
Not everyone has a closed relationship. If yours is open, remember not all STD’s have visible symptoms. Sexually active men are encouraged to have routine screening done every three months to six months. This includes having your blood drawn for syphilis as well oral and rectal swabbing for chlamydia and gonorrhea.

9. Dim those lights
If you're not afraid to make love in the complete dark, try glow in-the dark paint, spread it over one another and be guided by each others sensual light.

10. Be Prepared
Make sure to put out condoms, lube and clean towels before you leave for the night, so that you don’t have to stop to search them out later that evening